What is the best proof of your confidence? Is it outward devotion—how regularly you ask, go to chapel, read your Bible, and perform other clearly “Christian” exercises? Or then again maybe we should search for experiential confirmation—do God and His Word urge an enthusiastic reaction from you, or is it essential that you “feel” the Spirit at work in you?
No, the best verification of your confidence isn’t found by the way you act or how you feel, however by they way you cherish. Love is the best proof that a man knows God: “Dearest, let us adore each other, for affection is from God; and everybody loves’ identity conceived of God and knows God. The person who does not cherish does not know God, for God is love” (1 John 4:7– 8).
Those stanzas bring up the unquestionable association amongst adoring and being cherished by God. Then again, an absence of adoration demonstrates an absence of knowing God. I’m not discussing present day sentimentalized thoughts of affection. The affection that streams out of a recovering heart mirrors the unadulterated love that God fills the hearts of those He recovers (Romans 5:5).
The Creator of the universe has, in His unbounded insight, utilized the miscreants He spares to mirror His cherishing nature. God has spilled out His sparing affection on His choose. That thusly creates love among His kin—an adoration which achieves three basic purposes in our fallen world.
Love Testifies to an Unbelieving World
At the point when God’s affection radiates through our lives, it demonstrates to an unbelieving world that we have a place with Him. Jesus certified this when He stated: “By this, all men will realize that you are My devotees, in the event that you have the love for each other” (John 13:35). Our affection for individual Christians is a litmus test that isolates legitimate pupils from imposter fakers.
John MacArthur includes:
The congregation might be customary in its precept and energetic in its announcement of reality, yet that won’t convince unbelievers except if adherents cherish each other. Truth be told, Jesus gave the world the privilege to judge regardless of whether somebody is a Christian in light of regardless of whether that individual earnestly adores different Christians. 
We ought to look at ourselves and our associations with different Christians in light of this reality. What message would we say we are sending the unbelieving spectators of our lives?
Love Brings Assurance of Salvation
Joining a congregation won’t spare you, however, it may demonstrate whether you are spared. Jesus’ decree to “love each other, similarly as I have cherished you” (John 15:12) discovers its fullest articulation in the gathering of adherents.
The significance Jesus set on adoring our siblings and sisters in Christ clarifies why we should be focused on the neighborhood church, and why “online places of worship” will dependably be lacking. Authentic Christianity is demonstrated through up close and personal cooperation with different Christians—both the individuals who are anything but difficult to love and the individuals who are not all that simple to love. What better approach to developing in adjustment to Christ than by cherishing miscreants who are additionally during the time spent blessing?
Alternately, an inability to love our brethren uncovered our absence of affection for God:
On the off chance that somebody says, “I cherish God,” and detests his sibling, he is a liar; for the person who does not adore his sibling whom he has seen, can’t love God whom he has not seen. Furthermore, this precept we have from Him, that the person who adores God should love his sibling too. (1 John 4:20– 21)
An honest to goodness love for God and His congregation are the characteristics of bona fide Christianity. Since, as John MacArthur appropriately calls attention to, that capacity to love is the outward product of God’s inward changing work:
Every single genuine devotee has this affection, and all who have it are genuine adherents.
This sort of adoration can’t be invoked by the human will. It is created in the hearts of adherents by God Himself. “We cherish, in light of the fact that He initially adored us” (1 John 4:19). Love for God and love for individual adherents is an inescapable consequence of the new birth, by which we “move toward becoming partakers of the perfect nature” (2 Peter 1:4). Similarly, as it is God’s temperament to love, love is normal for His actual kids. “The adoration for God has been spilled out inside our souls through the Holy Spirit who was given to us” (Romans 5:5).
Virtuous love, in this manner, is a standout amongst the most imperative trial of the truth of one’s confidence. 
Love Reflects God’s Love
The best possible thought process in human love is divine love. “We adore, in light of the fact that He initially cherished us” (1 John 4:19). And keeping in mind that our prompt need is toward our kindred adherents, our obligation to love doesn’t end there:
The Lord’s summon to love stretches out past the congregation to grasp all individuals. Paul’s supplication for the Thessalonians was that they would “increment and possess large amounts of affection for each other, and for all individuals” (1 Thessalonians 3:12). He admonished the Galatians to “do great to all individuals, and particularly to the individuals who are of the family unit of the confidence” (Galatians 6:10). 
Having said that, we should not befuddle the adoration we appear for others—particularly unrepentant heathens—as evangelism. Cherishing individuals isn’t the gospel, nor is it another option to the gospel. Or maybe, it inspires and enhances the gospel that we lecture.
We lecture the lost since we cherish them and don’t need them to die—and on the off chance that we are really propelled by our affection for the lost, unbelievers can normally detect it. Also, we lecture the gospel since we adore God and want His glorification through the declaration of His incredible Name.
We can’t repeat God’s most noteworthy demonstrations of affection—particularly the cross. Be that as it may, we can mirror the affection that He has spilled out in our own hearts (Romans 5:5) by adoring individuals in ways that direct them toward our extraordinary and cherishing God.